When Co-Borrowers Split
July 19, 2000
"I am going through a divorce, and have agreed to stay on the mortgage
for 3 years. At the end of that time, my ex-wife can refinance the house
in her name. How much will this impact my buying a new home during the 3
years?"
The loan will show up on your credit report when you apply for a loan.
The lender may ignore it if you can document that your ex-wife has been
making all the mortgage payments on time.
If you can't document your ex-wife's payments, a new lender will assume
you may one day have to make the payments. In such case, the old
mortgage payment will be added to your other current debts in assessing
your ability to pay.
Lender assesses your ability to pay with two industry-standard ratios.
The first is your "housing expense ratio" -- the sum of your monthly
mortgage payment, including mortgage insurance, property taxes and
hazard insurance, divided by your monthly income.
The second is your "total expense ratio", which adds your other debts to
the numerator. If the lender won't disregard your wife's mortgage
payment, it will be included in the second ratio.
For each of their loan programs, lenders set maximums for these ratios,
such as, e.g., 28% for the first and 36% for the second. Whether the
maximums would limit the amount of house you can purchase depends on how
much you want to spend, your income, your other debts, and other
factors. You can funnel these numbers through the affordability
calculator on my web site.
"I am divorcing -- my husband is keeping the house and neither of us is
in a position to "buy out" the other. How can I get my name off the
mortgage so I can buy my own house?"
If both of your incomes are needed to service the existing mortgage,
your problem is insoluble. If your ex-husband's income is sufficient to
service that mortgage on his own, there are two possible ways to get off
the hook. One way is to persuade the lender to take your name off the
note. Since this would weaken the lender's claim, there is no reason the
lender would agree to it unless you provided some inducement. An
expressed interest in taking out a new mortgage with that lender might
be an inducement, although you want to be careful you don't leave
yourself with no bargaining power in negotiating the terms of a new
mortgage.
The second possible approach is to induce your ex-husband to refinance
under his own name. Depending on the interest rate on the existing
mortgage, it might be financially advantageous for him to do this
anyway.